Prior findings of emotional numbness (rather than distress) among socially excluded
persons led us to investigate whether exclusion causes a far-reaching insensitivity to both
physical and emotional pain. Experiments 1-4 showed that receiving an ostensibly diagnostic
forecast of a lonesome future life reduced sensitivity to physical pain, as indicated by both (higher) thresholds and tolerance. Exclusion also caused emotional insensitivity, as indicated by reductions in affective forecasting of joy or woe over a future football outcome (Experiment 3), as well as lesser empathizing with another person’s suffering from either romantic breakup (Experiment 4) or a broken leg (Experiment 5). Mediation analyses confirmed the link between insensitivities to physical and emotional pain.